Amazed

It amazes me how many people in my live tell me that they are there for me but really aren't. I guess you really know who your friends are when times are tough. My question is why say something you don't mean. I understand that everyone has a busy life and has things going on in it but come on. How hard is it to pick up a phone and just say "Hi how are you" even if it is through a text. I don't want nor need friends who only want to be friends when things are good or when they want something. I don't ask much from my friends and I have always been one to do for my friends no matter what my situation but I am now realizing who my TRUE friends are and let me tell you I am pretty disappointed not to mention hurt. Why should I care about them if they don't care about me?? Oh yeah, cause I have a heart. I guess I could say something to them directly but why would I want someone to feel like they HAVE to do something or feel sorry for me.